His secret to living happily ever after

His secret to living happily ever after As a child, I developed a dim view of marriage. Most of my friends' mothers Tiptoes about their parents. When I was nine years, my friend Karen's aunt and Saturday really gave us advice on how to achieve and maintain a happy man (not that I understood that did escape mopper dinner speech, and change diapers while her prince asleep on couch. I never even make eye contact with men who remained in coma for the length of our knowledge). As I was older, the magazine offers tips on how to get a man commit and how to decipher their feelings (the type of hope is beyond dispute). I get a message: To succeed in life, needs a man. It was a lot of work was the price I had to pay to be a woman. Like most girls, which was sold from the source of the fairy tale wedding, the ring giant, the dress, the honeymoon under the sun. But while the marriage seemed fun, beyond the life seemed to work from hell. Therefore, it is not surprising that, when I reached my 20s, I caught the wrong man. They feared some form of commitment or emotional tangle that prevents the initiation of a real relationship with me. After many years of research and a lot, I discovered that men are not the problem. I was the problem. I was attracted to men who can not commit because they do not want to compromise. The fund I believe that marriage was in my best, at worst, kill me. But still, a small part of me that wants to get married and wanted to believe that the relationship of all life forms have been possible. I determined what I wanted in a relationship, I felt safe, in peace, and bring me joy. I wrote down a list of the qualities that my husband perfect offering. Since I had a history of dating men who disappoint me (liars, cheaters, guys who have just stopped calling or sample), the quality of what I knew I did not want. I wanted someone honest, loving, reliable and successful, and fun (most married people are bored out of their minds, so 'fun' was the key for me). I wrote a statement: "I am happily married to a loyal, loving, reliable, effective, amusing man, and has written 25 times a day with the feeling (give me a CD that really happens in the process). Within a couple of weeks, I felt a change inside me. I thought I could marry a man who would make me happy. I thought I could be myself without worrying about her cheating on me, leaving me, I am choking or death. Within a few months I was attracted to the man she married. Fifteen years later, still in love and fun. Yesterday, 2nd May, we celebrated our 13th wedding anniversary. Can attract and marry the man of her dreams, including: 1) Identify what you want 2) Determine what you want to do 3) states that focusing on it and a written statement about him 5) 'aloud while you're in the shower or some other private place (no need to blurt in the company break room) 4) Keep it up, at least 30 days. Be consistent 5) Notification of changes to you 6) Notification of changes to attract men. It worked for me, and that works for you. Go for it.